You’re longing for more closeness and intimacy. Your sex drive is lower than ever. (Maybe you’ve given up all hope of sex ever being good again.) Your needs are not being met and you’re feeling sexually unfulfilled.
You’ve tried to have the conversation with your partner – but it never seems to be ‘the right time’.
You don’t want to bring it up when you’re both in a good mood and put a downer on the day. You don’t want it to slip out during an argument, because that will just make things ten times worse. And you definitely don’t want to mention it in bed.
You’re feeling stuck in a bit of a rut.
On good days, things are… alright. You try to focus on other things and almost forget about how you actually feel.
But on the bad days, everything just feels wrong. You feel down, inadequate, guilty, rejected, misunderstood, overlooked, lonely, and most of all, frustrated that things are not as you desperately wish they could be… and that you have no idea how to fix them.
As you look for ways to fulfil your need for intimacy and recognition, you might end up doing something that only makes it all worse: self-sabotaging, working too much, or resorting to ludomania. You might even be thinking of leaving your partner or feel tempted to have an affair.
All of these behaviours are typical symptoms of a greater problem: that you’re ignoring your need to satisfy your most intimate desires.
Or this whole thing may have started out the other way round; maybe one of those feelings started spiralling out of control, having a negative impact on your personal relationships and sex life.
Whatever the reason, let me just give you a pat on the shoulder for coming to this site and reading this. It tells me that you have not completely given up hope, and that you still believe it’s possible to have a satisfying sex life and a great relationship with your partner.
It also tells me that you are interested in finding a solution and that you are ready to do something about it.
Congratulations! You have already taken that first crucial step toward a newly exciting relationship and a satisfying sex life filled with desire.
No matter how hopeless you think your situation is, know that you are not alone. Every day I help people who have the exact same feelings as you, and who are in similar situations to yours.
While it may seem impossible right now, let me assure you that it IS possible to have a happy relationship and a great sex life that perfectly meets your needs AND those of your partner. It doesn’t have to be “either, or”.
Book a free discovery call with me today and start your journey towards a more fulfilling life.
For the past 20 years, I’ve coached many people across the globe. Starting out in sports, then moving on to personal development and life-style coaching; today, I specialise in sex and relationship coaching for both monogamous and non-monogamous individuals.
I help you find a solution that meets your own needs, while also taking your partner’s needs into consideration. Many feel stuck in a rut when they come to me. For some, their worries seem like an insurmountable obstacle. Others are in the midst of a life crisis.
My role is to help you navigate your way through the situation you’re in, until you reach the other side. Because on the other side, there’s a life full of the happiness, desire and intimacy you’re craving. I will help you get there!
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